I am processing your honest essay; if Letting go is an act of cowardice is the bravery of holding on to be applauded? That takes a toll too does it not? To make the decision anew each time is perhaps the most difficult of it all.
I hear you, Doc, my contention is that one never really "lets go", these 'self-righteous' self-harms never really heal and their memory diminishes you.
I am processing your honest essay; if Letting go is an act of cowardice is the bravery of holding on to be applauded? That takes a toll too does it not? To make the decision anew each time is perhaps the most difficult of it all.
I hear you, Doc, my contention is that one never really "lets go", these 'self-righteous' self-harms never really heal and their memory diminishes you.